Gigi is trying eharmony again, and though she hasn’t had any luck yet, they do have some great articles, so she will be posting a few of them.
I Can’t Stand Someone Who Likes to Spend Excessive Time as a Couch Potato.
#10 – There’s nothing wrong with relaxing, but being in a relationship with a couch potato can get old fast. In fact, men are so wary of lazy women that it sneaks into the Top Ten list of Can’t Stands.
I Can’t Stand Someone Who is Constantly Unhappy About Her Life
#9 – A partner who is constantly in a state of depression and unhappiness can feel like wearing a lead weight. Men have had enough experience in these relationships to rank partners who are constantly unhappy .
I Can’t Stand Someone Who Can’t Manage Their Anger, Who Yells, or Bottles It Up Inside
#8 – If you’ve ever been in a relationship with someone who has anger management problems, you know the feeling. Angry outburst come from nowhere, and you end up arguing about things that happened weeks or months ago.
I Can’t Stand Someone Who Uses Illegal Recreational Drugs
#7 – Depending on where you live, the laws pertaining to drug use are in a state of flux. One thing that eHarmony men seem clear about, they can’t stand illegal and recreational drug use.
I Can’t Stand Someone Who Has a Devious Nature and is Mean to Others
#6 – Practical jokes can be fun, but life’s no joke. Very few of us want to be with a partner who is devious or mean.
I Can’t Stand Someone Who Engages in Sex Outside a Committed Relationship
#5 – We all want a partner who is faithful to us, and men rank infidelity as a #5.
I Can’t Stand Someone Who is Not Clean
#4 – There’s just a certain level of hygiene that we all take for granted. Learning that someone isn’t interested in cleanliness is a big deal for most men.
I Can’t Stand Someone who is Belittling, Impatient, or Hateful to People in Any Situation
#3 – We’ve all been on the date where your companion abuses the waitress. You can’t help thinking, “How long before I get this treatment?” You know it won’t be long, and so abusive people rank highly on the Can’t Stand list for men.
I Can’t Stand Someone Who Takes Advantage of People
#2 – This can’t stand goes straight to the fear of betrayal. We all want to be with someone who we can trust to guard our back.
I Can’t Stand Someone Who Lies to Anyone – Especially to Me.
#1 – Clearly, men feel that no relationship can go forward with a dishonest person, making lying the most popular Can’t Stand of all.