Comments on: Guest Writer #108: “Friends with Benefits vs. Booty Call”

By: Dimonique Boyd

Dimonique Boyd — Tue, 30 Aug 2011 12:39:17 +0000

I think if I were down for either situation, I’d prefer the booty call. I’d rather be in a situation to mutually use than to be in an FWB situation and risk getting hurt. If we’re having sex and enjoying each other’s company, at some point the signals will get crossed, and I’m gonna think I’m in a relationship. You just can’t have it both ways with me.

By: chay

chay — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 18:24:10 +0000

I will consider a fwb relationship more than a “dating”..But both partners has to agree to ground rules and be honet with each other. My intent is not to change him and I will not change.

By: Gigi Flores

Gigi Flores — Fri, 26 Aug 2011 21:58:09 +0000

Gigi will NOT do booty call… she much prefers friends with benefits. Booty calls can (after a while) leave you with an unpleasant taste in the mouth, and you can feel used. At least with friends with benefits, it is is not in and out and quick, and you can get more than just sex…
Definitely make sure you know the parameters of these kinds of relationships so you do not get hurt…