Dating Tip #38: Do you tell the truth about how many people you have slept with?

Just the other day, Jonathan asked Gigi how many men she has slept with. Now Jonathan does not know about this blog, or her Gigi stories (he does know about the sex toy reviews though). Gigi did not know what to say… over ten is what she finally admitted to, but there is no way in hell she could ever EVER admit the truth…

From Gigi: Do not admit the truth. EVER. Anything over 5 men will make him think you are loose. Tell him how many times you have been in love, and that’s all you admit to. Do not admit to the casual, or one night stands, or friends with benefits.

From Jimmy: Lie and no more than 6 ;-) For sure don’t tell him the truth and put it into triple figures ;-)

From Gigi: Lol even if you are in your 40′s?

From Jimmy: It’ll make him feel good and all men know that women subrtact their age and then divide that number by 2……….. but deep down inside in our inner child they still like to feel like they’re the only one:-)

From Shari: Steer away from the topic.

From Cassie: I would say at 40 years old, it is a juvenile question and none of his bloody business! Seriously grow a pair boys!

From Lisa: Amen sister!

From Gigi: Lol Cassie… someone actually asked me once, and I thought there was no way in hell I could give the honest answer… so instead I told him how many people I’d been in love with. that was a much better number!!

From Jimmy: Gigi… I’m shocked ! :-) That’s what growing up in Mallorca does for you ;-)

From Gigi: Lol I was actually good in Mallorca… it’s in Michigan that the numbers grew!!

From Jimmy: You must have been a slow starter :-) It doesn’t matter how many, it only matters how many you remember :-)

From Gigi: Lol I was a very slow starter…

From Jimmy: Anyway… glad ur happy, have a great Xmas and maybe see you at Stevie’s next summer?

From Brie: I am not a whore, so I tell them the truth :) hahaha

From Gigi: Lol Brie… is there a number that would make one a whore?
and Jimmy, I’d love to see you in Mallorca soon!!

From Amanda: I’m with Cassie on this one. I’ve been asked that before and at whatever age, I’ve always said the same … I don’t kiss and tell… None of your damn business.

From Jim: I answer that question with a question: “In which countries?”

From Ricardo: It’s sad that this double standard only applies to women, well here in the states. In this day and age it shouldn’t matter.

From Winnie: It’s not the quantity but the quality!!!!!

From Dina: Always make sure that they are number 3 no matter how big the little white lie!! makes them feel great!!!!!

From Ron: Don’t bother to lie about anything… they’ll either like you or not… if the number is too high for them they aren’t ready to join you on life’s exciting journey ;-)

From Jimmy: ‎@ Dina…… LITTLE white lie…. are we sure about that Dina ;-) Love ya.

From Dina: Jimmy, you know it makes sense!!!! I’ts what you men like to hear. Have a great Christmas xxxx

From Jimmy: Dina, I was inferring that it might actually be a WHOPPING white lie ;-)

From Mike: At one time or separately?

From Dina: Friends don”t count ! Their just experience, getting you prepared for marriage making sure that you have chosen the right Mr. right !!! Know what I mean? Life is a long time Jimmy!!!

From Marty: I always lie..i know it sux but i really dont wanna scare her off hehe :P

From Jerry: If a person is truely interested in you, it should not matter at all. If I were asked that question, I would say the truth. If someone cannot love me for me, oh well. Trust is important in any relationship!

From Ken: Would you lie to me?

From Gigi: Totally

From Ken: There is your answer

From Tawny: I usually say I don’t want to know his numbers or talk about mine… it’s in the past for both of us.

From Dionne: Of course you lie.

From Camille: I ask why he wants to know, because he probably really wants reassurance. If he still wants a number, tell the truth.

1 Comment on Dating Tip #38: Do you tell the truth about how many people you have slept with?

  1. Helen

    You know, I agree that it’s a rather juvenile question. In my case, the intimacy part has always needed a prerequisite, which is a relationship. I would ask him at which point that would happen for him and stick with that.

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