Sassy’s article #5: Sex Tips

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  • October 21, 2010 at 8:45 pm

Sassy is on the look out these days for great articles on sex… the internet is wonderful and you can find anything you want!! Hopefully people might one day come to this blog to get tips on everything to do with love, dating, and relationships. We want to be ultimate place for advice on all aspects of our lives, without holding things back because they are not “proper”. Sassy feels that anything that brings one pleasure without hurting others is as proper as an English cup of tea.

This sex tip works under the assumption that your relationship is based on trust and a willingness to experiment. In other words, don’t try this on a one-night stand. That being said…

Let’s face it: a lot of these wonderful women we date enjoy it when we get somewhat aggressive in the bedroom, and take both initiative and control.

Within reason, women enjoy it very much when their men dominate them — or even let them be the dominant ones. When it’s all in good fun, whipping, choking, biting, and hair pulling, among other things, can be excruciatingly pleasurable.

It’s no secret that pain can easily intensify pleasure. If you don’t believe it, just get your woman to try some of the following things on you as early as tonight.
WHIPPING BOY
You don’t necessarily need to go out and buy a whip to feel the pleasure of this; you can easily use a leather strap or a small towel. Remember, the idea of aggressive sex is not to hurt your lover, but to help her feel immense heights of pleasure through a minute amount of pain.

While she’s on all fours, lightly whip her back or her butt with said object and always make sure that she’s enjoying it (you’ll know by the noises she makes or the nasty things she utters).

As well, you can use your fingers to pleasure her vagina while you calmly let her feel the pleasure that a little pain can reap. As well, you can caress the area you whip after doing so, to ensure that it didn’t hurt too much.
CHOMP, CHOMP
Nibbling, biting, chewing… it’s all good. Don’t do it in a mechanical way; nuzzle your face into her neck and bite on it while you use your hands to caress her body.

Slowly make your way down to her breasts and be careful here — don’t bite hard; instead use your teeth to nibble on her nipples. If she wants you to bite, she’ll pull your head down or spit out the words.

Follow the path down to her thighs via the side of her body, biting your way all the way down. When you get to her legs, don’t bite too hard as the inner thighs are very sensitive. Bite very lightly for a little while and then flip her around.

A lot of guys don’t know this, but a woman’s back is very sensitive and if you get your mouth back there and start biting and sucking, you may just drive her crazy.
TEASE HER TRESSES
If you know how to grab a woman’s hair the right way, you can do most anything because she will be putty in your hands. When you kiss her, hold her hair by its roots and pull her head back while you make your way down to her chest to suck and bite (see above) on her luscious breasts.

As well, when you penetrate her, hold on to her hair when you’re coming in and release a little when you’re going out. What’s even better is holding on to her hair firmly when you make your way to her ear to tell her that, “I love being inside of you.”

The element of imagination is amazing, and talking to her while you grab her hair only intensifies the moment and could make for a crazy evening.

THAT CHOKING FEELING
Perhaps I’m crazy, but I’ve met quite a few women that thoroughly enjoy being choked while making love. Why? Well, apparently when circulation to the brain is slightly cut off, it heightens pleasure.

But I’m not talking about erotic asphyxiation in which you choke your partner until she passes out; just put a hand around her neck while you’re penetrating her and check her reaction. She shouldn’t feel threatened and if she does, or if you have never talked about it, do so beforehand.

If she’s keen on the idea, then start off slowly and use your hand to choke her while you kiss her mouth. Or better yet, choke her when she’s about to reach orgasm. It will serve to heighten the experience for her, and seeing her reaction may turn you on so much that you’ll reach climax as well.
THE DOMINATOR
Indulging in sexual games is always fun. You could be the stranger who shows up at her front door out of nowhere and makes an attempt to seduce her. And she can act as though she doesn’t want you at all.

Start whispering and when she says she can’t hear you, tell her to come closer. When she does, grab hold of her face and kiss her passionately. If she backs away, apologize for your behavior. If she doesn’t (which is likely), get increasingly aggressive and remove her clothes as quickly as you can but remain fully dressed.

Turn her on with your fingers and your tongue, and ask her if she wants you. If she says yes, then get her to undress you and make love.

If she whispers no, then undo your pants and rub your penis around her vagina. If she keeps saying no in that teasing way, start sucking her breasts and keep asking her. If she still keeps saying no, penetrate her with only the tip of your penis and ask again.

By now, she’s wanting you more than you’ll ever know, and if she’s still saying no with a faint breath, that’s only because it’s rhythmically being repeated in her head. Slowly go all the way in, and tell her that you want her anyway.
IT’S EXTREME
Bringing each other to the brink of sexual insanity can only serve to make your love life that much more passionate and exciting. Experiment with each other; try things you’ve never done before.

Never dog anything until you try it. Let her attempt the aforementioned ideas on you as well; maybe you’ll love having your hair pulled or being choked when you reach orgasm.

Until next time, perfect your lovemaking skills by getting you

r hands on AskMen.com’s Handbook To Great Sex.

http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_60/78b_love_tip.html

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