Plus ça change, plus c’est la même chose
For those of you who don’t know this very famous French expression, it means, the more things change, the more they remain the same. Or FML (Fuck my Life). Gigi was so upset one night, that she typed on facebook as her status: Plus ça fucking change, plus c’est la même fucking chose. She felt bad, and deleted it. Gigi doesn’t swear much.
She finally has a man, who wants to date exclusively… and he is not into sex!! They’ve been dating for three weeks so far ( a record lately for Gigi), and she hasn’t had sex in two weeks, even though she has spent two entire nights with him, in these last two weeks.
Why? After a wonderful first week of dating, troubles hit his life: of the financial kind. Now Gigi was just happy that not once did he ask her for money. But almost worse, was that it depressed him and made him so blah and moody, that the loving and attentive boy friend of the first week was soon MIA.
It makes Gigi crazy, especially since she left all her dating sites, and told her friends with benefits that she was no longer available.
Thank God for one very special man, who is making Gigi feel very special. If he is reading this, he will know who he is. They havev met only four times in the past, at events held by friends, always feeling an attraction, but never acting upon it. Well, he’s been keeping her sane on facebook and through texts, and when he returns to town, they are planning on getting together… and seeing where the attraction can lead them. And if it goes as well as they think, then Gigi might not need any other man.
This mysterious stranger is young… only in his 30′s and so hopefully as sexually potent as Gigi, and not like the men in their 40′s seem to be… (at least the ones that Gigi meets). If Gigi’s current man loses her, then it is all his fault, for ignoring Gigi’s needs. After telling her he loves sex and lots of it, and then not giving her any, he deserves to lose her. Even though she made it very clear that she wanted some, he just didn’t give her what she needed… People, women’s (and men’s) needs MUST be met, or else people will stray… it’s inevitable… I don’t care how many sex toys are out there or how f’in good they are… nothing is as good as the real thing. And if you have a partner and are not getting any sex, then something is really wrong…